Too Grand a Wedding

About spending too much on an elaborate wedding:

"You are crippling yourself to live your dream.
Don't do it!
Face this reality. Embrace this reality."

- Dr Phil

Be Honest

Admit when you need help. Contact your lenders.
Don't borrow from your retirement.
Sell, sell, sell whatever you can.
Live smaller to be financially secure.
Open all your mail.
Learn to tell yourself "No."
You can't buy your way to success.
Start sacrificing for the people you love.
Have a weekly "money discussion night" as well as a weekly "date night."